And when I say late, i mean laaate!
Here's what happened last night:
1:46 am Him: Fuck. Another set of flip flops.
This isn't weird to me, it's him trying to start a conversation. I went back to sleep without replying.
3:03 am Him: Guess we aren't talking
3:44 am Me: You're the one blowing me off, so not sure why you're confused.
3:51 am Him: I'm not blowing you off
3:52 am Me: Yeah, not between 12 and 4am
3:53 am Him: Whatever
3:59 am Him: I'm out
4:05 am Me: It's probably for the best. I'm not some "booty call" and it's pretty clear you don't want me around.
4:06 am Him: I never treated you like that
4:08 am Me: Only texting at bar close (esp on weekends) is exaaactly what that is. You may not mean it (and I don't think you do) but that is how it feels
4:10 am Him: Well do what you have to do. It's not like I come in stripping. I walk in with the intentions of trying to hang out with you
4:15 am Me: I know that, but you make these "maybe" plans with me then blow me off til after the bar is closed. Feels like you don't want me around. I can take a hint.
That was it. I'm not really one to beat around the bush. I wouldn't say I'm afraid of confrontation, if something is bothering me I usually just come right out with it. What I feel the worst about is, this is his birthday week and we got into a tiff like this? I feel really bad.
Now, I wonder if I will ever hear from again. I kind of think I will. It's not like the late night texts really bother me, and I honestly believe him when he says he doesn't think of them as booty calls. He can't sleep at night, so he usually texts me and we stay up talking. That isn't at all what is bothering me, I'm bothered by the fact that he doesn't invite me out. What happened Wednesday night for his birthday? I know he was out at the bars. This isn't the first time it's happened either. What I want to know is WHY he doesn't want me out with him too. If he really liked me, he would want me around, right? Makes me think he's seeing another girl or he doesn't want me there so he can flirt with other girls! I just don't get it.
Anyway, that's the latest. I'll keep you all posted.