Weekend recap

Don’t you just love weekends that are that perfect balance of busy and relaxation? I know I do. I need some time to myself to just chill.

On Friday I worked til 2pm, went out for a run with Lexi (who pooped out after mile 2 and wouldn’t move for 20 minutes) then got ready to meet up with a friend for dinner, drinks and a movie. We had crab legs (wearing fashionable “I Like Crabs” bibs!) and we saw The Bourne Legacy. Last weekend Becky and I watched all three of the Bourne movies, and I think she has created a monster! I’m hoping to read the first book soon. I liked the fourth movie! Despite a new main character and a new author writing under Robert Ludlum, I thought it was very well done! My date hated the ending, but up until that point, he liked it as well! All I know is I love these movies now, and all three of the dvds are going on my Christmas list!

 {Lexi is okay in this picture. Some have commented that she doesn't look well... and I have to agree, but I promise you, she is alive and kickin' today.}

Saturday I got up early and headed to the downtown farmer’s market with Zeke and my friend Ang. I haven’t been to the downtown market in ages for one reason or another, so I was really looking forward to a spinach pupusa and hopefully some good produce. I got my pupusa (and shared with Zeke!) and some summer squash and a Downtown Farmer’s Market reusable tote bag. I had been eyeing these totes for quite a while, but didn’t want to pay the $20 they were charging for them. Last week the market was caught in the rain and a few of them had water stains (that are barely visible!) so they cut prices 50%. I didn’t think twice and finally bought one. I’m starting the transition from plastic bags to using all reusable bags, hopefully this helps!

After the market Zeke and I headed to Grey’s for a lap around the lake, and then it was home for an afternoon of relaxing before heading out again for a bachelorette party. I ended up taking a quick nap and I’m really glad I did.

My friend Anna is getting married in about a month and her bachelorette party was Saturday night. We started at her house and then made our way downtown for dinner at a Dos Rios, a local Mexican restaurant. I had a really good time, but I was trying hard not to drink too much. For one, I wanted to be able to drive home and two, my body is not reacting to alcohol and hangovers very well anymore. I am basically out of commission for the entire day following, and I just don’t find that to be worth it anymore. Overall though, I had a great time and cannot wait to celebrate with her next month when she ties the knot!

 {The bride is on the left - her motto of the night? Light and breezy, light and breezy (as she slaps you in the face with a brown dildo. Ha!}

Sunday was The Ultimate Lazy Day. I spent the entire day in my pajamas and it felt amazing. I started watching the first season of Felicity on Netflix and got through six episodes, I read a little bit of Gone Girl (which, I am struggling to get into) and took another nap. That evening I was scheduled to do an overnight for work, but other than that, I took it really easy and just relaxed. Felt amazing!

What the highlight of your weekend?

Book Club Friday!

It’s Friiiiiiday! My week flew by and I can hardly believe Friday is already here. I returned home from vacation on Monday night and jumped right into the work week, still working a schedule of 40 hours (never mind that 8 of those hours was sleeping…) and that definitely contributed to an accelerated week.

This weekend I have some fun stuff planned. A bachelorette party (woot, woot!), Saturday farmers market, wrapping up my last summer class and then some other odds and ends around the apartment.

But, first it’s not the weekend without a proper Book Club Friday! This week I am linking up with Heather again and I am talking about two books that I read this week. Where We Belong by Emily Giffin and The Dogs of Babel by Carolyn Parkhurst.

Where We Belong is Emily Giffin’s fifth novel and this one did not disappoint! I have met very few people that dislike Emily’s novels, so if you’re a fan of Something Borrowed and the sequel, Something Blue, this book is right up your alley.

From Goodreads:

The author of five blockbuster novels, Emily Giffin, delivers an unforgettable story of two women, the families that make them who they are, and the longing, loyalty and love that binds them together


Marian Caldwell is a thirty-six year old television producer, living her dream in New York City. With a fulfilling career and satisfying relationship, she has convinced everyone, including herself, that her life is just as she wants it to be. But one night, Marian answers a knock on the door . . . only to find Kirby Rose, an eighteen-year-old girl with a key to a past that Marian thought she had sealed off forever. From the moment Kirby appears on her doorstep, Marian’s perfectly constructed world—and her very identity—will be shaken to its core, resurrecting ghosts and memories of a passionate young love affair that threaten everything that has come to define her.

For the precocious and determined Kirby, the encounter will spur a process of discovery that ushers her across the threshold of adulthood, forcing her to re-evaluate her family and future in a wise and bittersweet light. As the two women embark on a journey to find the one thing missing in their lives, each will come to recognize that where we belong is often where we least expect to find ourselves—a place that we may have willed ourselves to forget, but that the heart remembers forever.

 

I bought this book the day it came out. Emily Giffin is one of those authors that I will absolutely splurge on her hardcover new releases. Considering I try to keep my monthly book budget at or around $25, dropping $20 for one book is a pretty big deal. I cannot resist her books though. I love ‘em! This one I started to devour almost immediately, and then I realized that I should probably slow down and savor it a bit more, so I put it down to start One Breath Away (gasp! I know, right??). Then, I completely fell in love with One Breath Away and there I was torn between what to read! How often does that happen?? Hardly ever.

The second book I am talking about is The Dogs of Babel, which is a book I picked up at a used bookstore while on the East Coast visiting Becky. I can get out of hand in used bookstores (somehow the term “used” affords me a free pass to buy whatever I want) so I put myself on a budget of $20 and this gem was available for only $4.50.

Becky and I were browsing the classics, where I was looking for Jack Kerouac’s On The Road (which I can never seem to find a sweet used copy) when she asked if I had read The Dogs of Babel. I looked at her blankly and said I had never heard of it.  She promptly marched off to contemporary fiction where she found the book for a such a steal, I could not say no when she demanded I buy it and read it. After finishing Where You Belong on the plane and trying to decided what to read next, Becky once again suggested this book. I decided, why not, and then picked it up. Three days later I had finished it…

From Goodreads: 

Paul Iverson's life changes in an instant. He returns home one day to find that his wife, Lexy, has died under strange circumstances. The only witness was their dog, Lorelei, whose anguished barking brought help to the scene - but too late. In the days and weeks that follow, Paul begins to notice strange "clues" in their home: books rearranged on their shelves, a mysterious phone call, and other suggestions that nothing about Lexy's last afternoon was quite what it seemed. Reeling from grief, Paul is determined to decipher this evidence and unlock the mystery of her death. But he can't do it alone; he needs Lorelei's help. A linguist by training, Paul embarks on an impossible endeavor: a series of experiments designed to teach Lorelei to communicate what she knows. Perhaps behind her wise and earnest eyes lies the key to what really happened to the woman he loved. As Paul's investigation leads him in unexpected and even perilous directions, he revisits the pivotal moments of his life with Lexy, the brilliant, enigmatic woman whose sparkling passion for life and dark, troubled past he embraced equally.

This book was such an original, engaging and sometimes strange read - I loved it.

I’m still planning on posting recaps of days 2 and 3 of my East Coast adventure – so be on the lookout for them!

Hope you all have a wonderful weekend! 

Washington DC Trip - Days 1 & 2

How can one get to the age of 30 and have never visited the nation's capital? I'm not sure, but that was me up until this past weekend. In high school we had the opportunity, but for one reason or another, I did not take it and go on that trip.

Earlier this year, during the January meet up in Chicago, Becky and I started brainstorming dates for a big visit to Virginia and Washington D.C. I knew I just had to make that trip happen and now I can hardly believe it is over!

Day 1

I booked my flight out of Kansas City, because it was about $100 cheaper and I could combine some family time with the trip. On Wednesday, I headed down to KC and stayed the night with some family, Thursday morning we got up and I caught my 1pm flight into Reagan National Airport.

Due to arriving at 4:30 and right before the rush hour, I was able to witness some of the DC traffic. I did not mind though, because the views were incredible. Driving down I-95 I got a full view of the Pentagon in person and many other sites, I could even see the Washington Monument in the distance and I am pretty sure I squealed out loud. ;)

Frequently during this trip I was struck with the enormity of the history in this area and how amazing it is to see it in person. I was in awe of what it would be like to grow up in an area like this and have so much access to such rich history.

That night we had dinner made my the most wonderful hosts, Becky and her husband Ben, and then we ran a few errands (including Target and Wegmans (wine!)) and then it was time for dinner. Brewing in the crockpot was a delicious beef dish served over noodles, and it was so good! I could not stop myself from taking a second serving. I only regret not taking a photo!

{Becky in her new Anthro apron - I think it suits her perfectly!}

That evening, I believe, is when we started our Jason Bourne movie marathon. Becky is a huge fan of the series of movies (and, coughMatt Damoncough). When she found out that I had not seen the series, she quickly added that to the itinerary. I did not mind one bit, because hello! Matt Damon is some seriously yummy eye candy.

Day 2

The next day we got up at a reasonable time and, after stopping for the first of many Starbucks trips, we headed to George Washington's estate, Mount Vernon in Alexandria, VA. I honestly was not really sure what to expect. I have never toured a president's home and this was the very FIRST president's home! I felt honored, if that was even possible.

{Me just hanging out with George, Martha and the kids! Excuse my closed eyes - I swear I do that for 50% of the photos I am in. I still love this picture though.}

His home was simply stunning and I have to admit the back porch with the breathtaking views of the Potomac River were my favorite part. I've always loved water and would love to live close to the water again someday so, George, I agree, "No estate in America is more pleasantly situated than this." ~George Washington

{These green chairs are lined up along the back porch and facing the Potomac. The views were stunning}

{One of the many pictures I took, while sitting in those green chairs}

 

{Posing in front of the estate, right before taking the tour}

After leaving Mount Vernon, we headed just a couple minutes away to the Pope Leighy house, which is a home designed and built by Frank Lloyd Wright. This home is only 1200 sq ft., but it is amazing what he did with that space. He did not believe in the extra clutter that we all keep in our homes and he made a home that was affordable and comfortable to live in. It was so beautiful and only further cemented my fascination with this architect's work!

 

{Me, standing in front of the house}

{A little dark, but a view of the back of the house}

After these outings, we headed back to Becky's for a little downtime before getting ready to head to Wolf Trap for the Idina Menzel concert and to meet Mandy with her step sister and brother in law! I have corresponded with Mandy for awhile now through blogging and Twitter so I was really excited to finally meet her face to face! She is just like she is online and we had such a lovely time at the concert. Today, in Mandy's post she suggested that if you have the chance to see Idina in concert, go! And, I have to say, I completely agree with her! The concert was awesome and Idina Menzel is hilarious! She's from Staten Island, so her sense of humor is definitely that confident, "I do what I want" East Coast humor, that I am beginning to admire and adore.

 {Mandy, me, and Becky waiting for the concert to begin.}

I also cannot end this day without talking about the Wolf Trap amphitheater. I adore outdoor concerts and have several venues that are my favorite places to see performing arts. Kansas City's Starlight Theater? Bonner Spring, Kansas' Verizon Wireless (formerly known as Sandstone) or Des Moines' own Simon Estes amphitheater just to name a few, but Wolf Trap was amazing! I loved every second of it and it may have stolen the top spot for concert venues.

{The view from our seats on the lawn. The night was perfect for an outdoor concert!}

The only downside of that venue was the parking. Getting out was horrid and the traffic was insane. We made it fun though! Despite being beyond exhausted, we laughed about the terrible drivers and their assertiveness. In the Midwest, we have our fair share of drivers that think they own the road, but I am pretty sure everyone on the East Coast believes they own the road! This night I saw someone flip us off for the first time while visiting, and I believe Becky got a good laugh at my exclaiming, "Ohmygod, he just flipped you off!!" I cannot remember exactly what he flipped us off for, but I know it wasn't for much, because if we had deserved it, I know I wouldn't have been that surprised!

This is getting long, so I will end here, but this was just days 1 & 2, I seriously have so much more to recap! Watch for my recap of the rest of the trip!

Did you go to Washington D.C. when you were young? If not, have you been as an adult? I think a young Amber would not have appreciated the overwhelming amount of history as much as today's Amber does. I wish I had gone when I was a kid, but I know that having gone at an older age, I know more about the history and can appreciate it on a much deeper level.

On leaving...

As I'm sitting in the airport about to leave the East Coast, I cannot help but marvel at the fact that I have met so many wonderful people through blogging.

This will be short, as I am boarding the plane in less than an hour and I want to eat before I board, but I wanted to post something to today. 

I started this blog in 2008, right after I moved back to Iowa from South Carolina, right after I left a job that I absolutely was head over heels for, but could not stomach being so far away from home for anymore.

Because of this blog, I have met so many people that have helped me through so many transitions in my twenties and I could not be more grateful for their friendship.

Growing up I kept a journal off and on, but I was completely oblivious to the online blogging world until I got back from this adventure living in the South. Sometimes I think about how wonderful it would have been to have a blog during that time in my life, because I literally knew NOBODY when I moved there and at times, it was very hard.

I did not really start meeting bloggers until 2011 when I met Lisa at a Jodi Picoult book signing in Minneapolis. Although, the first blogger I truly met was in 2009 when I met Lesli (also for a JP signing), but for a long time I did not meet another blogger in person. Lesli is still the first blogger I met IRL, and our friendship blows me away, because I think of her as a big sister and she is one of the first people I go to when I need someone to calm down and give good life advice. Since meeting Lisa in 2011, I have met so many others (lots local!) and I just love it!

The opportunities that I would not have had otherwise leave me feeling so grateful and they are such a testament to the wonderful blogging community. I am extremely protective of this community, and for those that do not understand it... I have no words.

As I leave DC, after seeing Becky for the second time in my life, after she graciously opened up her home to me and showed me around her hometown home city in Virginia as well as the nation's capital, I am left with a lump in my throat and the threat of tears because I feel so lucky and so blessed to have such wonderful people in my life. 

I am so grateful and know that I am blessed.

Book Club Friday

I had always heard of Heather Gudenkauf, and I knew she was an author from Iowa, but I just could never seem to get around to picking up her books! One day when browsing the books at Costco, I noticed her newest release, One Breath Away. I'm not supposed to be buying books, but my sister convinced me I should buy it, and that I have been working hard so I deserve it (enabler!), so I did.

I am so glad I did! I haven't even finished this book, and it is all I can think about. It is simply captivating!

The book covers one day in a small fictional Iowa town called Broken Branch. There is a shooter in the school and the book is told through the perspective of six different people.

Holly, a mother who is thousands of miles away from her children that are in the school. Augie, Holly's daughter who is actually in the school. Mrs. Oliver, a veteran third grade teacher that holds herself up to incredibly high standards. Meg, a local police officer, who also has a child that attends the school. Then, Will, a local farmer and Holly's father who he has been watching over Holly's two children while their mother is away.

This book is captivating and terrifying all at the same time. What would be going through your mind if someone entered your building with a gun and the intent to shoot? Many have said that this book is too difficult to read right now after what happened in Aurora, Colorado. I agree, but these are situations that we have to think about and be prepared for. These days we're not just doing fire drills and tornado drills. We're doing violence drills, too. This book is about what happens when a community comes together, or what doesn't happen.

On Monday I had the opportunity to hear Heather speak at a local library, and it was so much fun. She is a really interesting person and her story is so inspiring! She is a high school teacher in Mason City, Iowa and she has been writing pretty much her entire life. Her career as a writer and her road to publishing is pretty similar to other authors with lots of "no thanks" at the beginning, but it is inspiring that she kept trying. She talked a lot about what that was like and what it takes to get published. It sounds like she got really lucky, but I hate saying that, because her writing really is good. I love how she is weaving the characters together and telling the story from multiple time periods so seamlessly. At the signing she did talk a lot about what it was like to get so many rejections and she passed around her rejection letters. It was really interesting to see those and imagine what that would be like.

Her first book, The Weight of Silence was a big hit and I know many, many people love that book. It has been on my list as one to read, but I think now, after hearing her speak and loving One Breath Away so far, I will have to get to The Weight of Silence sooner!

Today I am linking up with Heather at Blonde Undercover Blonde for Book Club Friday.

Twiddle dum, there's no comparison

From the time I was in middle school and first heard the song 'Just A Girl', I was completely obsessed with No Doubt. I can remember watching their music videos over and over and over. I wanted to be just like Gwen Stefani. I wanted her blonde hair, red lips and those amazing abs. Plus, she's just plain awesome. Such an inspiring, talented lady. 

The first single from No Doubt's new album

The band has not released an album since 2001 with Rock Steady, and although I do like Gwen Stefani's solo work, I am so excited to see what the band has up their sleeve. They have been a band since 1986 and have the most amazing history together. It is truly a wonder that they are still such good friends and still working together.

The new album, Push and Shove comes out September 25th and you can better believe I will be buying it and devouring it immediately! If people still waited in line to buy cds at the music store, I would be there.

Hopefully I can catch them live too, because I have never seen them. It should be a crime to love a band so much, but have never seen them live! It's happening this time when they go on tour!

Who/what is your all time favorite singer/band? Who was your favorite when you were younger?  

Books 'n Bars v15

Fifteen months later and Books 'n Bars is still going strong!

For July we chose to read The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky and we met at a new bar and restaurant called Louie's Wine Dive. I was really pleased with this month's turnout and despite several last minute cancellations, we had 11 people in attendance.

One of my favorite parts of book club is meeting new people as well as bringing people together. I have met several friends of friends of friends that I have truly enjoyed getting to know and chatting about books and life with!




Starting in August I have decided to change things up and choose the books a little differently. Instead of throwing several book suggestions out and then voting on one, we are going to take turns choosing a book. So, yesterday I assigned everyone that was interested in suggesting a title a number. Using random.org a number was drawn and that person chose the book. It worked out really well, and I can't wait to see if this method continues to work.

For August we are reading The History of Love by Nicole Krauss and the bar or restaurant is TBD. We're thinking Django downtown though (we all agreed a place with good food is a must. Food > alcohol. Ha.)

I am so excited this is still going strong and I truly look forward to meeting with everyone each month! Cannot wait for our August meeting.

If you are local, we are meeting on Wednesday, August 29th at 6pm. Here is the link for the event.