Wednesday, June 3, 2009

He's baaaaaaack...

It has been awhile since I have brought up this guy on here. A couple of weeks ago we had a not-so-pleasant conversation and since then I have ignored him. Until the middle of last week (yes, I lasted 12 days) when he texted me and asked me if we still weren't speaking.

I'm not sure what to do. I was kind of hoping I would hear from him, but why? I honestly don't know.

My reply to him was pretty simple and since then we have been texting as normal. Sometimes flirty, sometimes not. Sometimes daily, sometimes not at all. I'm not sure what he wants from me, but I'm pretty sure he knows what I want from him.

It's obvious we have feelings for each other and I'm hoping that my ignoring him did some good and now he knows that I'm not going to put up with anything.

For now, I'm just going with the flow. I'm not initiating any plans with him and I'm not texting or calling him first. If he wants something with me he will have to make the effort because I have been making most if not all the effort for the past three months.

I don't know what it is about this guy but I keep getting reeled back in.

11 comments:

Vanessa (Last Night's Leftovers) said...

Hey, thanks for stopping by my blog today! Good luck with the guy :)

Larissa said...

oh damn. i had a feeling he'd come back. some guys are just like that. id keep doing what youre doing girl. going with the flow is always best.

Shoshanah said...

good luck, and hope it all works out somehow!

Crazy Shenanigans said...

Stick to your guns. You can do it! It's time he does all the work!

Lesli said...

Yes, go with the flow. Make him do all the work & make all the effort. Just sit back & enjoy him crawling back.

Amber said...

Yeah, I figured he'd be back too. He really does have a lot of issues going on and I'm one of the only people he talks about it with so it makes it hard not to be there for him. You all are right though, I'm just going to sit back and enjoy myself. Apparently him and I are back at square one, we seem to have moved too soon too fast and are now starting over. Oh, joy.

Perfectly Pleasant said...

Good for you standing your ground! Hope it all works out!

Jenny Georgio-who said...

I think sometimes when you step back the guy realizes what he can stand to lose and it opens his eyes.

Good luck!

Pursuit of Matching Accessories said...

Going with the flow is good... and you now have the upper hand!

TitansFan said...

I think it sucks being a guy. We never have the upper hand. The fact that we have to deal with women that do things to us is tough. You think we are born a holes but it's not like that. There was one girl that ruined it for the rest of you. Games seem like fun. As soon as we figure that we are just here for your enjoyment we're out. Keep asking why there are so many a holes, the answer is simple. Ya taught us to be this way.

Amber said...

The same can be said for girls. One guy has left us jaded and skeptical.
I completely disagree with you, most of the times guys have the upper hand. There is absolutely no way WE taught guys to be ass holes.