tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1112065358549799390.post1356769997110454777..comments2023-10-25T09:47:13.177-05:00Comments on A Little Pink in the Cornfields: So frustrated....Amber @ A Little Pink in the Cornfieldshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06898255649481697297noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1112065358549799390.post-16710200018919095182009-05-05T11:49:00.000-05:002009-05-05T11:49:00.000-05:00im so sorry its taken me so long to respond to thi...im so sorry its taken me so long to respond to this! lol! I just want you to know that trying to be with someone who is still hung up on their ex is not good for you. I tried being with someone like that recently and he couldn’t put his heart out there. I ended up almost falling for him and it would have been ugly. You can always try to stay friends and when he’s truly ready, you two could try things again. I’m really sorry that this happened to you. If you ever need anything, you know where to find me. Goodluck, do what is best for you, but be careful. It sucks to get your heart hurt.Larissahttp://www.oregoncitygirl.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1112065358549799390.post-90390560867737120062009-05-04T22:27:00.000-05:002009-05-04T22:27:00.000-05:00Thank you so much guys... I truly appreciate all o...Thank you so much guys... I truly appreciate all of the advice. For some reason my gut is telling me to be patient. That if I'm patient it will be worth it, but is that my head, or my heart? My heart has never been right... :(<br />I have read He's Just Not That Into You, and actually own it. I think I know what I need to do, but I just don't want to do it! I think I'm just going to give this some more time, lay low and see what happens. I'm definitely not ready to end it, even though any sane person probably would!Amber @ A Little Pink in the Cornfieldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06898255649481697297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1112065358549799390.post-44039062066849448872009-05-04T20:43:00.000-05:002009-05-04T20:43:00.000-05:00Aww that sucks!! Sorry to hear about this.
I dun...Aww that sucks!! Sorry to hear about this. <br /><br />I dunno, I know it's super complicated but it sounds like he's in kind of a weird place right now. Maybe just kind of give him an ultimatum and tell him you can't handle his back and forth and that he can call/text you when he's ready to commit and see what happens. If he doesn't commit than you deserve better!Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05185652640389232120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1112065358549799390.post-75047901111476718572009-05-04T20:32:00.000-05:002009-05-04T20:32:00.000-05:00Sounds like he still needs to figure things out, s...Sounds like he still needs to figure things out, so I would give it some time, and if someone better comes along, I wouldn't ignore it.<br /><br />I'd also say you need to talk about this stuff in person or over the phone. Trust me, I'm not a phone person either and my bf and I mainly communicate through text or e-mail. But to have that big of a conversation both in length and subject matter over text isn't a good idea. So much gets lost in translation.<br /><br />Good luck!A Super Girlhttp://www.secretlysupergirl.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1112065358549799390.post-41177739745184256642009-05-04T19:03:00.000-05:002009-05-04T19:03:00.000-05:00Ughhhh!! Frustrating. You do have to take it slo...Ughhhh!! Frustrating. You do have to take it slow with him, I think and take a step back I guess.<br /><br />It all comes down to timing, and if he is not over his last relationship, you don't want to be the transitional girlfriend. You want to be THE girlfriend.<br /><br />I have told you this privately, but I think you should date other people and since I know you really like (insert name here) you should still see him too. But sounds like he needs time & space and patience.Leslihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12391399471614823101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1112065358549799390.post-72276405576777023572009-05-04T18:43:00.000-05:002009-05-04T18:43:00.000-05:00I feel like I went through this exact same thing w...I feel like I went through this exact same thing with an ex, down to saving the im conversations and over analyzing them later. And while eventually we were "its complicated" on facebook for 3 months or so it didn't wind up working out. But if I hadn't pursued things, I never would have known how wrong he was for me.Shoshanahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15707241263291051104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1112065358549799390.post-61460404598795411692009-05-04T18:11:00.000-05:002009-05-04T18:11:00.000-05:00Have you read He's Just Not that Into You? I don'...Have you read He's Just Not that Into You? I don't know if he really is or not, I don't know your situation except for this post, but that book clears up a lot of stuff..it was like a bible to me in college. :)<br /><br />I can relate to being afraid to let yourself fall in love again, but at the same time, it's unfair to take out the fear/frustration/whatever out on you. I guess just give him a little time and see where it goes would be my advice. :)Fidgeting Gidgethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03903926675948152931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1112065358549799390.post-66676966988379385122009-05-04T14:54:00.000-05:002009-05-04T14:54:00.000-05:00Sorry, I deleted my comment b/c it was a bit TMI. ...Sorry, I deleted my comment b/c it was a bit TMI. I really wanted only you to read it...not the world.Amber Dupreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047766026155600688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1112065358549799390.post-62621640546432593592009-05-04T14:19:00.000-05:002009-05-04T14:19:00.000-05:00Oh god, sounds so familiar!!!
My ex and I dated f...Oh god, sounds so familiar!!!<br /><br />My ex and I dated for three years then he said he didn't know what he wanted, blah blah. So we separated for 6 months and then he came back. I stayed with him for 5 more years after that and the same thing happened again. He wasn't ready to make the next step in our relationship.<br /><br />This time I left without looking back! I figured out that I deserve someone better then that. I got tired of the "I'm confused" or "I don't know what to do" or "I don't know where the relationship is going" etc. <br /><br />You need to do what feels right for you and only you can make that decision. <br /><br />In my opinion he isn't over the breakup and he needs to figure out what he wants. Right now he doesn't know and it's not fair to you to have to deal with his ever changing feelings for you. <br /><br />I don't think he is trying to play with your heart or use you, I just think he is confused.<br /><br />My only advice for you is to tell him what you want, that you want a relationship with him and to move forward. If he can't give that to you then move on. Maybe he will realize then that he really wants to be with you or work on his issues a little more to be with you.<br /><br />I know for me looking back on my past relationship I feel like I wasted so much time and energy for nothing because I couldn't change him or make him be in a relationship when he wasn't ready.lmtjc19https://www.blogger.com/profile/04142030328473815017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1112065358549799390.post-49672845231863996162009-05-04T13:57:00.000-05:002009-05-04T13:57:00.000-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Amber Dupreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047766026155600688noreply@blogger.com